Can Love really last forever?

First of all, let me start by saying that I write from experience, and no matter how inconceivable the quality and depth of love that two souls can experience if they approach one another honestly and with clear intentions may seem, it’s not just some fairytale. 

The world may not yet have confirmed it, but it has become obvious that everlasting love does exist. By everlasting, I mean lasting through several lifetimes, having taken physical form as soul energies here on Earth, and elsewhere, throughout many incarnations. 

Love is an energy that,if the mind doesn’t intervene,can circulate endlessly and refuel not only the two parties involved, but also their environment. Who hasn’t seen lovers sharing a smile every time they look at each other, making it evident, even to the outsider that they are in an entirely different state of mind? That’s when we think back on our lives, our own altered states, and think: if only we could relive that moment, those few weeks or months when the flame of our love was burning so fiercely. We accept it is a state, that eventually fades away and we go back to our “normal” life. 

Men and women desire this altered stateequally, even if it badly burned them before, because that’s when their soul dances, as this is its natural state. The soul’s primary state is the dance. That is when it feels alive and happy, and you can permanently sustain this pink fog. Don’t think you will constantly smile like an idiot and lose your sense of reality. You can learn to managethis state just like motherhood, the husband-wife relationship, or singing and walking. Anything you do for the first time and enjoy can be unusual. With practice it becomes a part of you, and from then on it’s natural. It’s natural that a child learns to walk, and when they learn how to place one foot after the other it becomes a part of them and they don’t pay attention to it anymore. 

Love must be learned and handled the same way. I admit, this took me years. Every time I fell in love I instantly felt afraid of waking up and losing the magic. Until the day when I first laid eyes on my prince on his white horse and realised I had been waiting for him all along, and my love became permanent.

But I had to grow up, to clear and realise that all this time my mind had been playing tricks on me, for if I dared, I could have sustained the different state…But I was afraid,my soul was afraid, afterthe millennia of pain and heartache it had lived through, and it had become cautious. However, as the soul clears and the mind recognises that it is more beneficial to cooperate with the soul, because it benefits the mind too, an invariable peace will be your companion. And when you meet your prince/princess in this state of peace, you no longer need to fear, because the love you feel then can never end…

The one who clears completely, be that the man or the woman, attracts the other like a magnet. The glow emanating from he or she is blinding, and every soul gladly takes up residence in it. The other half also starts to clear in the enlightened soul’s light (as is the case in other relationships too; father-child, friends, relatives, etc. - the one with the clearer light, clears the one they live with or are closely connected to).

To go back to the man-woman quality again, the woman who has gone through thick and thin attracts her partner, and the man sees nothing but her glowing light. This light is the food for his soul, hence he can’t look any other way.  He feels he has arrived and none of his earlier memories could compare to this blindingly clear light.

This brings us to the main point of enlightenment: clear yourself and attract your other half. Live with them in a loving relationship, and pass it on to your children so that they see your good example, because in the new world only this quality of love can survive. 

How do you know you have cleared completely and foundthe One for you? The mirror will never lie. 

Your partner is your mirror. In his eye you are a Goddess, and this won’t change in years to come. As the months go on, the love only grows and grows as he clears and his light becomes stronger. His mind, his soul and every cell of his body desire you. Nothing surprises you, as you know how he feels, what he thinks and he knows all your unspoken thoughts too. He knows your every look, and the first negative thought the mind creates and stands between you gets corrected right away, nothing gets swept under the rug, you resolve it then and there. You feel every bit of him, you even adopt his physical symptoms in case of an illness, and therefore you heal “together”.

This quality of love is not restricted to a ‘twin-flame’, but it’s strongest with them, and their love can be so intense the mind can hardly bare it.

One day, the flame that is constantly looking for it’s other half lays eyes on the bright light. They carefully approach them and when they recognise it’s them, they wouldn’t want to move again. From then on the state becomes permanent. Nothing exists. No one else but them. That’s why they came to Earth; to find the other one. Only with them could life be complete and total fulfillment be experienced as well as continualexistence in a lifeform where they won’t separate anymore,once thebodies had decayed.

If a soul is capable of finding its other half here on Earth, and at least one of them is clear, the other one in turn starts to clear too. And neither on Earth, nor in other lifeforms, will they ever be apart again. The flame, the original form, unites and becomes one once more.

This is a tremendous task for the soul, for there is also the mind. The mind provides life on Earth and no longer exists once the body has decayed. The soul, on the other hand, is forever and immortal. And since the soul remembers everything, but the mind doesn’t, it could take millennia before a soul can clear and its other half becomes aware of that. There has always been a chance to clear at a considerably faster rate during the era of enlightenment, and many souls have found one another and been given opportunity to leave the earthly plane and continue on a higher level of consciousness. 

When the soul sees its other half, it’s the equivalent of euphoria. They would do anything to stay in that euphoric state, only the mind tends to interrupt… ‘Does he feel the same? See, I told you he’s not like that. Is he seeing someone on the side? Is he going to betray me?’ These and other similar thoughts cross the mind until they can be called forth, in most cases, from the subconscious, where the present life experiences, or adopted ones (from family, circle of friends and other beliefs) are stored, which we at first have to get rid of so we can realise our opportunities.And once we have those opportunities, let’s not throw them away. 

There’s a lot to be said about the mind and the soul, it’s impossible to squeeze it into a single article, I can only share one or two thoughts. In this next section I will talk about the mind, body and soul. This trilogy is the most important for us, and we have to bring them into balance. 

What is the mind? The mind is given for the earthly life, as is the body. The physical body and mind are infused with the energy of the soul, it fills them and creates an energy field around us. I call it energy, some call it aura or energy body. Whatever we call it, it’s energy nevertheless. 

The base of the soul is the heart, it’s where the divine spark lies. Divine spark = soul. 

The soul’s maturity and energy varies from person to person. The more mature the soul, the bigger its energy body. Within this energy body resides almost everything we brought with us, everything that the soul has experienced and grown from. We can add a lot to that in this life and we can polish it. There are souls with energy bodies no more than 10 centimetres thick, while others’ can extend several metres. Obviously, the more developed the soul, the bigger the energy body and the more people it can affect in a positive way. As we know: your inner light affects, clears and lifts others. 

When this glorious soul is born it receives an earthly armour: the mind and the body. Just as the magnificent Jin was squashed into a bottle,the mind and the body restrict the soul and it’s energy.

As long as this trinity is not in harmony, you can not live a full life. The soul pulls to the right, the mind to the left, and the body is numbed by the food we eat, meat, chips and other “delicacies”. You have to find the balance between the three, as it’s the only way you can fulfill your life’s purpose and live a heavenly life on Earth. 

The clearing of the body is the easiest, since you both wad it and also build it with food. It consists of 14 parts, one of which particularly hinders us, and that is the subconscious mind. This is an enormous storage space that is activated at the moment of birth and disappears with the passing of the body. Already at the time of birth there can be unpleasant experiences, which can influence our sexuality or parenting abilities. 

And this back storage is the one we fill.  We clutter it with all sorts of beliefs, fears and pain. Then one day we realise the disc is full, and the red light goes on: alarm! In an area of our life - if only one - chaos has appeared. That’s when we turn to a doctor or a spiritual counsellor. 

The pain of the past can’t be dealt with by the mind, as there is also the soul that got hurt by an emotional issue. However, the soul doesn’t only harbour pain from this life, but form thousands of others as well. Anything can be in there and can come up, which you can also experience in your present life, only amplified. 

Let’s say in your childhood you experienced your father leaving you. The mind stores this pain in the subconscious and, hopefully, deals with it at some point. But the moment the father steps out the door, ergo the pain gets imprinted into the subconscious, the soul starts to remember all the memories from previous lives, in which one way or another it was hurt by a father (lost him in war, experienced being left or abused by him or any other bad experiences associated with him.) And so a problem from a present life is quite likely to bring up certain memories from thousands of lives. In that case, it’s not enough to dig down to our childhood, the problem is rooted much deeper in our previous incarnations.

A person may struggle with a lot of issues regarding their relationships, financial situation or health by the time they reach adulthood. It’s not enough to examine the present life, or only treat the physical symptoms; you have to dig deep down in your soul if you want full recovery and significant change in the quality of your life. And to be able to dig down into our soul, the mind has to give up some of the control, because the path to the soul passes through the mind. Don’t forget, the soul energy was given a physical armour; a mind and a body.

The relationship with our twin-flame is about healing ourselves, because, in order to find them, we have to find peace and harmony within. Your twin-flame is your mirror! He or she is going to treat you the way you treat yourself. This connection is all about the freedom of love, in which all rules, expectations, beliefs and obstacles fall away. The barricades of your mind turn into dust, and your soul can once again love freely, without any fears. 

I wish you happiness, a fulfilling life and an EVERLASTING love!

Wrote: Maria Filotas